When does Goodness and being Nice become a serious negative in Life?
Only on the automobile roads of human civilization.
Until the day of perfection, when all the ills of driver behavior were eliminated, having a Nice Personality
on the roads could actually be life threatening!
For eg, being excessive considerate or cautious could slow down traffic causing accidents, or passing on the red due to impatient drivers behind honking you on a slow red light. Or changing lanes unnecessary in high speed, high risk situations just because of impatient drivers honking your slowness unreasonably. Or entering a fast moving highway too quickly, recklessly just because someone is honking behind you, rushing you. And in certain fast moving situations, as in highways, being "not so nice" and decisive is crucial in saving one's life.
Niceness can really kill.
And being a bad-As@#@# can save your life.
Being totally self centered, strong headed, independent, CALM and oblivious to others' ridiculous demands in such situations are not only important, but crucial in saving your life.
A lot has been talked about of the dangers of having a bad personality - impatience, being emotional, anger etc.
But little has been discussed and focused on how a nice Personality could also contribute to accidents.
Most people were born nice- and being nice means you should not be on the roads.
The roads are not for Nice people- Students should be made aware of this.
Does driving requires a certain personality never mentioned in driving school?
Students should be made aware of the dangers of their Nice personalities and be ready to change, to MEAN UP, to become a road warrior, in order to drive safely.
This important step is not currently provided in driving schools.
Before learning to drive, Personality tests should be given to all students in driving schools, determining their personality types, strengths and weakness, and alert them of their Personality weakness and its danger. The students should be warned repeatedly that some NICE personality types are simply too dangerous to be driving unless they are willing to go through that personality transformation.
The driving schools should alert the students of this important fact instead of just grabbing their money irregardless.
Furthermore, after training and personality transformation, students should role play the likely accident scenarios on video simulator to reinforce their learning- simulators are such a useful learning tool all driving schools should provide. ALL personality weakness and scenarios based on it should be covered and practiced numerous times over to cement the new Driving Personality.
So yes, it is sad.
Until the day of human perfection,
be ready to wipe off that smile on your face, and become that mean, bad-as@@#@ warrior of the roads.
*** To MEAN UP or become that mean bad a@#$$ drivier, we do not imply to become a bad person and exhibit negative uncivil behaviors- it simply means to be aware of your weakness in being NICE and that certain areas of NICE can be dangerous, so u can adjust your behavior accordingly for safety.
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Only on the automobile roads of human civilization.
Until the day of perfection, when all the ills of driver behavior were eliminated, having a Nice Personality
on the roads could actually be life threatening!
For eg, being excessive considerate or cautious could slow down traffic causing accidents, or passing on the red due to impatient drivers behind honking you on a slow red light. Or changing lanes unnecessary in high speed, high risk situations just because of impatient drivers honking your slowness unreasonably. Or entering a fast moving highway too quickly, recklessly just because someone is honking behind you, rushing you. And in certain fast moving situations, as in highways, being "not so nice" and decisive is crucial in saving one's life.
Niceness can really kill.
And being a bad-As@#@# can save your life.
Being totally self centered, strong headed, independent, CALM and oblivious to others' ridiculous demands in such situations are not only important, but crucial in saving your life.
A lot has been talked about of the dangers of having a bad personality - impatience, being emotional, anger etc.
But little has been discussed and focused on how a nice Personality could also contribute to accidents.
Most people were born nice- and being nice means you should not be on the roads.
The roads are not for Nice people- Students should be made aware of this.
Does driving requires a certain personality never mentioned in driving school?
Students should be made aware of the dangers of their Nice personalities and be ready to change, to MEAN UP, to become a road warrior, in order to drive safely.
This important step is not currently provided in driving schools.
Before learning to drive, Personality tests should be given to all students in driving schools, determining their personality types, strengths and weakness, and alert them of their Personality weakness and its danger. The students should be warned repeatedly that some NICE personality types are simply too dangerous to be driving unless they are willing to go through that personality transformation.
The driving schools should alert the students of this important fact instead of just grabbing their money irregardless.
Furthermore, after training and personality transformation, students should role play the likely accident scenarios on video simulator to reinforce their learning- simulators are such a useful learning tool all driving schools should provide. ALL personality weakness and scenarios based on it should be covered and practiced numerous times over to cement the new Driving Personality.
So yes, it is sad.
Until the day of human perfection,
be ready to wipe off that smile on your face, and become that mean, bad-as@@#@ warrior of the roads.
*** To MEAN UP or become that mean bad a@#$$ drivier, we do not imply to become a bad person and exhibit negative uncivil behaviors- it simply means to be aware of your weakness in being NICE and that certain areas of NICE can be dangerous, so u can adjust your behavior accordingly for safety.
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For more articles, our "Article Index" is at bottom of this link :
https://iduidu.blogspot.com/2018/12/timeline-history-and-whats-new-at-end.html
